I've been married for many years, although not particularly enthusiastic about it-until now. Don't misunderstand. Sharon and I have had a loving, committed relationship for decades. But recent consciousness-raising arguments over same-sex marriage changed my overall opinion about marriage. You might even say that support for gay marriage became my personal DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act).
MORE: http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/on-faith/wp/2013/08/05/an-atheists-defense-of-marriage-act/